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GELENEKLER\u0130M\u0130Z – ADETLER\u0130M\u0130Z<\/span><\/p>\n

Ak\u015fehir, k\u00fclt\u00fcr co\u011frafyam\u0131z\u0131n maddi ve manevi zenginliklerini g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar ya\u015fatm\u0131\u015f, ender kentlerimizden biridir. Ak\u015fehir in halk k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc varl\u0131klar\u0131 aras\u0131nda; S\u0131ra Yarenleri Gelene\u011fi, \u00dcnl\u00fc G\u00fcl-d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn Ustas\u0131 Nasreddin Hoca s\u0131, Halk T\u00fcrk\u00fcleri, Halk Oyunlar\u0131, Halk Masallar\u0131, Halk Hik\u00e2yeleri, Maniler, Ninniler, Bilmeceler, Tekerlemeler, Atas\u00f6zleri ve Deyimler, Dua ve Beddualar, Ni\u015fan ve D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn T\u00f6renleri, \u00c7ocuklara Ad Koyma, Yemekleri vb. \u00f6\u011feler g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar ayakta kalmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u0130\u015eAN: D<\/span>\u00fcn\u00fcr Gitme ve K\u0131z \u0130steme:O\u011fullar\u0131na iyi bir e\u015f,kendilerine iyi bir gelin bulan ana ve baba aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri taraf\u0131ndan m\u00fcnasip g\u00f6r\u00fclen birisini d\u00fcn\u00fcr ba\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7er.<\/span>
\nD\u00fcn\u00fcr ba\u015f\u0131,k\u0131z ailesine konuyu \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131r ve d\u00fcn\u00fcrlerin ziyaret edecekleri g\u00fcn\u00fc belirlerler. Belirlenenlenen g\u00fcnde d\u00fcn\u00fcr gidilir.\u00d6nce o\u011flan taraf\u0131ndan kad\u0131nlar,sonrada erkekler bu g\u00f6revlerini yaparlar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlar D\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fc: Belirlenen g\u00fcnde,o\u011flan\u0131n annesi, akraba ve dostlar\u0131ndan baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n te\u015fkil etti\u011fi heyetle k\u0131z evine giderler.Gelin aday\u0131n\u0131n misafirlein yan\u0131na gelip el \u00f6pmesiyle birlikte,misafirlerdeki \u00e7ekimserlik kalkar,samimiyet artar,meclis \u015fenlenir,nihayet diller alt\u0131ndaki bakla \u00e7\u0131kar,ziyaretin konusuna girilir.<\/span>
\nO\u011flumuzu evlendirmek istiyoruz,ailemizin i\u00e7ine kat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 arzu etti\u011fimiz k\u0131zlar aras\u0131nda k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rd\u00fck.Allah’\u0131n emri peygamber efendimizin kavli ile size d\u00fcn\u00fcr oluyoruz denir.<\/span>
\nK\u0131z\u0131n fazileti o\u011flan\u0131n d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden bahsedilir.O\u011flan taraf\u0131n\u0131n konu\u015fmas\u0131 bitti\u011finde k\u0131z evi cevap verir.<\/span>
\nAllah yazd\u0131 ise,nediyelim olur in\u015fallah…Yaln\u0131z m\u00fcsade edin de babas\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fcklerine h\u0131s\u0131m akrabaya soral\u0131m denir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Erkekler d\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fc: Kad\u0131nlar d\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn amac\u0131;k\u0131z\u0131 kendilerine lay\u0131k bulduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmak, konuyu anlatmak,ve evlenmenin ilk yolunu a\u00e7makt\u0131r.<\/span>
\nErkekler d\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcne ayn\u0131 g\u00f6revden ba\u015fka konunun maddi taraflar\u0131n\u0131da konu\u015fmak d\u00fc\u015fer.Kad\u0131nlar d\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fc olumlu sonocu<\/span>
\nald\u0131ktan sonra o\u011flan\u0131n baba ve h\u0131s\u0131m akrabalar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckleri d\u00fcn\u00fcr heyetini olu\u015ftururlar ve ayn\u0131 teklifi k\u0131z evine tekrarlarlar.<\/span>
\nYaln\u0131z erkek a\u011fz\u0131 kullan\u0131l\u0131r;”bizim hahdum,sizin kerime ” tabirleri kullan\u0131l\u0131r.Sonu\u00e7ta teklif kabul edilmi\u015f oulrsa; “hay\u0131rl\u0131 olsun,Allah mesut etsin,allah bir yast\u0131kta kocats\u0131n”dua ve temennileri edilir.<\/span>
\nMaddi konunun konu\u015fulmas\u0131nda \u00e7etin tart\u0131\u015fmalar olur.Genellikle,elbise,ayakkab\u0131, manto,be\u015fibirlik,bilezik,zincir,k\u00fcpe,y\u00fcz\u00fck ve ba\u015fl\u0131k konusunda bir sonuca var\u0131l\u0131r.Art\u0131k i\u015f \u015ferbet,dolay\u0131s\u0131yla da ni\u015fana kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.Her iki taraf da memnun ayr\u0131l\u0131r.<\/span>
\nFakat teklif kabul edilmezse,konu kendili\u011finden kapan\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u015eerbet-Ni\u015fan (kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda): Erkeklerin d\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden sonra,ni\u015fan ve \u015ferbet yap\u0131l\u0131r.Bunun i\u00e7in o\u011flan evi,k\u0131z evi ile uygun bir g\u00fcn belirlerler.<\/span>
\nO g\u00fcn i\u00e7in “okuyucu” lar h\u0131s\u0131m akraba,konu kom\u015fuyu,kad\u0131nlar \u015ferbeti i\u00e7in davet ederler.Belirlenen g\u00fcn ve saatte<\/span>
\ny\u00fcr\u00fcyerek k\u0131z evine gidilir.Misafirler kap\u0131da kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r.Buyur edilir,kahve ikram\u0131nda bulunurlar.teklif tekrarlan\u0131r.Bu arada m\u00fcstakbel gelin gelerek kay\u0131n validesinin “kaynanas\u0131n\u0131n” ve di\u011fer davetlilerin ellerini \u00f6per.<\/span>
\nSohbetler edilir,eski g\u00fcnler,evlilik ve aile saadeti hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fulur.<\/span>
\nHay\u0131r ve saadet temenni ve dualar\u0131 aras\u0131nda kal\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131cakla denilir.Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcn ak\u015fam\u0131 erkekler \u015ferbeti yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/span>
\nErkekler \u015eerbeti : kad\u0131nlar \u015ferbetinin ayn\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.Kad\u0131nlar \u015ferbetinin yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcn gecesinde bir erkek okuyucu taraf\u0131ndan okunan “\u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lan” davetliler o\u011flan evine toplan\u0131r.<\/span>
\nE\u011flenti yap\u0131l\u0131r,mevl\u00fct okutulur.Misafirlere lokum,\u015feker,sigara gibi ikramlarda bulunulur.<\/span>
\nBu geceden bir g\u00fcn evvel:(alt\u0131 bardak \u015ferbet dolu bir s\u00fcrahi ve \u00e7e\u015fitli \u00e7erezi ta\u015f\u0131yan tepsi i\u00e7ine ipek bir mendile sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ni\u015fany\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc) k\u0131z evinden o\u011flan evine g\u00f6nderilir.<\/span>
\nNi\u015fan y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc o\u011flana tak\u0131l\u0131r,K\u0131z evinde yap\u0131lan dua ve temenliler burada da yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/span>
\nNi\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6neminde her iki taraf \u00e7e\u015fitli zamanlarda birbirirlerini davet ederler.O\u011flan evi bayramlarda (baklava,b\u00f6rek) gibi ikramlar\u0131 hi\u00e7 eksik etmez.<\/span>
\nE\u011fer ni\u015fan kurban bayram\u0131na rastlarsa,ni\u015fanl\u0131ya anl\u0131nda alt\u0131n ba\u011fl\u0131 olan bir ko\u00e7 hediye edilir.\u015eayet ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k devresi (h\u0131d\u0131relleze) rastlarsa ,k\u0131z evine Ak\u015fehir’in me\u015fhur peynirli pidesi g\u00f6nderilir.Gelin k\u0131zda \u015fehrin mesirelik yerlerine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/span><\/p>\n

KINA GECES\u0130 : Y\u00f6rede K\u0131na yakma olay\u0131,d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden iki g\u00fcn \u00f6nce olur.Kad\u0131nlara k\u0131na yakma t\u00f6reni g\u00fcnd\u00fcz,erkeklere ise gecedir.<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0131z Taraf\u0131nda K\u0131na : Bu t\u00f6rene gelen misafirler,k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n e\u015f dostlar\u0131,h\u0131s\u0131m akrabalar\u0131d\u0131r.Ayr\u0131ca,damat taraf\u0131ndan ortak tan\u0131d\u0131k misafirlerde kat\u0131labilirler\u0131<\/span>
\nO\u011flan taraf\u0131ndan (damat taraf\u0131) kimse bu t\u00f6rene kat\u0131lmaz.Misafirler yerlerini ald\u0131ktan sonra mevl\u00fct okunur,sora geline k\u0131na yakma i\u015flemi ba\u015flar.<\/span>
\ngeline k\u0131nay\u0131, ba\u015f\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn (anne ve babas\u0131 olan) k\u0131z arkada\u015flar\u0131 yakarlar.K\u0131na yak\u0131l\u0131rken koro halinde “G\u0131c\u0131lar,Karanfilsin” t\u00fcrk\u00fcleri s\u00f6ylenir.<\/span>
\nY\u00f6rede gelinlere be\u015f ayr\u0131t\u00fcrde k\u0131na yak\u0131l\u0131r.\u0130plikli,tarakl\u0131,leblebili,muskal\u0131, ve d\u00fcz k\u0131nad\u0131r.K\u0131na yakma i\u015flemi bitince ,k\u0131na tas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ine madeni para konur.<\/span>
\nBu k\u0131na tas\u0131 o\u011flan evine g\u00f6nderilmek \u00fczere haz\u0131rlan\u0131r.Bu t\u00f6renlerde \u00e7alg\u0131 olarak zilli def ve ud (ince saz)kullan\u0131l\u0131r.Geline k\u0131na yak\u0131ld\u0131ktan sonra,y\u00f6resel t\u00fcrk\u00fcler s\u00f6ylenip oynan\u0131r,e\u011flenceyi “tad\u0131nda b\u0131rakal\u0131m” diyerek son verilir. Ev sahibi misafirleri kap\u0131ya kadar ge\u00e7irip u\u011furlar.<\/span>
\nErkek Taraf\u0131nda K\u0131na : Erkek taraf\u0131nda k\u0131na gece olur.Bu t\u00f6rene k\u0131na; k\u0131z taraf\u0131ndan haz\u0131r gelir.Mevl\u00fct okunduktan sonra damada arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan d\u00fcz k\u0131na yak\u0131l\u0131r.<\/span>
\nBuradada k\u0131z taraf\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi,k\u0131na yak\u0131l\u0131rken koro halinde Karanfilsin ve G\u0131c\u0131lar t\u00fcrk\u00fcleri s\u00f6ylenir. K\u0131na tas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7indeki paray\u0131 kim bulursa k\u0131na tas\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r.Bu tasla misafirlerden bah\u015fi\u015f toplan\u0131r.Bu olaya ise “Tas ka\u00e7\u0131rma” ad\u0131 verilir.<\/span>
\nErkek taraf\u0131ndaki k\u0131na gecesinde de \u00e7alg\u0131 olarak zilli def ve ince saz (ud,keman,c\u00fcmb\u00fc\u015f) kullan\u0131l\u0131r.Buradada y\u00f6re t\u00fcrk\u00fcleri s\u00f6ylenip y\u00f6re oyunlar\u0131 oynan\u0131r.<\/span>
\nGecenin ilerleyen saatlerinde ev sahibi “d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00e7orbay\u0131 bizde i\u00e7elim” diyerek,misafirleri d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yeme\u011fine davet etmi\u015f olur.<\/span>
\nHemde k\u0131na gecesinin bitti\u011fini beliretir.Misafirler kap\u0131ya kadar ge\u00e7irilip u\u011furlan\u0131rlar,k\u0131na t\u00f6reni bitmi\u015f olur.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN : K\u0131na Gecesini takip eden g\u00fcnde erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n h\u0131s\u0131m akrabalar\u0131 ve e\u015f-dostlar\u0131 damad\u0131 hamama g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrler.Hep birlikte hamamda temizlendikten sonra damada,damatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 giydirirler. Bu olaydan sonra o g\u00fcn i\u00e7in yap\u0131lacak i\u015fler bitmi\u015ftir.<\/span>
\nErtesi (D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn oldu\u011fu) g\u00fcn erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n evinde misafirlere yemek verilir.Misafirlere verilen yemek;yo\u011furtlu yayla \u00e7orbas\u0131,ha\u015flanm\u0131\u015f et,yaprak dolmas\u0131,irmik helvas\u0131 ve ho\u015faftan meydana gelir.<\/span>
\nYemek yendikten sonra erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n h\u0131s\u0131m akraba ve e\u015f dostlar\u0131 k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n evine gelin almaya giderler.Gelin erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n evine atla getirilir.<\/span>
\nGelin erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n evine geldikten sonra koltuk merasimi ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda bir t\u00f6ren yap\u0131l\u0131r.Bu t\u00f6rende erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n evinde<\/span>
\nerkek olarak yaln\u0131zca damat bulunur.Burada damat geline d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn tak\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 (Be\u015fibirlik) takar.B\u00f6ylece koltuk merasimi bitmi\u015f olur.<\/span>
\nBu merasimden sonra damat,sa\u011fd\u0131c\u0131 ile birlikte Nasreddin Hoca T\u00fcrbesini ziyaret eder,burada hay\u0131r duas\u0131 edilir.<\/span>
\nDamat yats\u0131 namaz\u0131 bitimine kadar eve gelmez.Namaz bittikten sonra damat eve gelir ve gerdek odas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde hoca beklemektedir.<\/span>
\nKap\u0131da beklemekte olan hoca dini nikah\u0131 k\u0131ymaya ba\u015flay\u0131nca damat gerdek kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yan taraf\u0131na \u00e7ekilir.Gelin kendisini<\/span>
\nhocadan ba\u015fka kimse g\u00f6rmeyecek \u015fekilde kafas\u0131n\u0131 kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r”EVET”cevab\u0131n\u0131 verir.<\/span>
\nGerdekten sonraki g\u00fcn,sa\u011fad\u0131\u00e7 eve gelir ve duruma bakar.Sonra damat\u0131 hamama g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.Damat hamama giderken dinen boyabdesti olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ceketini veya paltosunu tam olarak giymez,s\u0131rt\u0131na al\u0131r.<\/span>
\nSa\u011fd\u0131\u00e7\u0131n karar\u0131na g\u00f6re o g\u00fcn misafirlere d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sonras\u0131 yeme\u011fi verilir.Bu yeme\u011fin ad\u0131”ERTE”dir.\u015eayet bu yemek verilmezse<\/span>
\nveya verilmedi\u011fi halde erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fclm\u00fcyorsa gerdek gecesi ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r anlam\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.Erte yeme\u011findeki yiyecekler;yo\u011furtlu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00e7orbas\u0131, \u015fepit ekme\u011finin i\u00e7ine ha\u015flanm\u0131\u015f et pilav ve irmik helvas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

GICILAR (K\u0131na yakarken s\u00f6ylenir)<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u0131c\u0131lar kavak da g\u0131c\u0131lar<\/span>
\nK\u0131na getir hac\u0131lar<\/span>
\nGelmez olsun gelin al\u0131c\u0131lar<\/span>
\nKal evimiz kal kal<\/span>
\n\u015een k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z \u015fen<\/span>
\nK\u0131nay\u0131 kararlar tasta<\/span>
\nO\u011flan evi pek havasta<\/span>
\nK\u0131z evide kara kara yasta<\/span>
\nAtlad\u0131 ge\u00e7ti e\u015fi\u011fi<\/span>
\nSofrada kald\u0131 ka\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/span>
\nGelin evin yak\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/span>
\nKal evimiz kal<\/span>
\n\u015een o\u011flumuz \u015fen<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

GEL\u0130NE\u00a0 KINA\u00a0 YAKMA\u00a0 (\u0130PL\u0130 KINA)<\/span><\/p>\n